
Assalam-o-Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu! Aaj ka sawal bohot ahem aur aam hai: “Agar koi shakhs ghusse mein ya josh mein ek hi majlis mein teen talaq de de to kya sach mein teen talaq pad jati hai aur nikah khatam ho jata hai?” Yeh sawal Mufti Tariq Masood sahib se “Ask Mufti Tariq Masood” program mein kiya gaya tha, aur aaj hum iska jawab Quran-e-Kareem, Sahih Ahadees aur Aimma-e-Arba’a ke fiqh ki roshni mein mukammal tafseel se dete hain.
Sab se pehle Quran-e-Pak ki taraf dekhein. Allah Ta’ala ne Surah Al-Baqarah ayat 229-230 mein talaq ka tareeqa bayan farmaya: “Al-talaqu marratan” – Talaq do baar hai. Phir ya to bhali tarah rakhna ya husn-e-tareeq se chhod dena. Is ayat se saaf zahir hota hai ke Allah ne talaq ko do baar tak ma’loof kiya, teesri baar ke baad aurat par haram ho jati hai jab tak ke woh kisi dusre shakhs se shar’ai nikah na kar le.
Ab Ahadees ki roshni mein dekhein:
Mufti Tariq Masood sahib apne bayanaat mein farmate hain: “Jamhoor ulama – Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi’i aur Hanbali – ka yahi fiqh hai ke agar koi shakhs saaf lafzon se teen talaq ek sath de (masalan “main tujhe teen talaq deta hoon” ya “talaq, talaq, talaq”) to teen talaq pad jati hain aur nikah khatam ho jata hai. Yeh talaq-e-bid’ah aur talaq-e-mughallaza kehlati hai, jo gunah hai lekin nafizh (laagu) hoti hai.”
Kuch log kehte hain ke teen talaq ek sath sirf ek talaq gini jati hai. Yeh raaye sirf Ibn Taimiyyah, Ibn al-Qayyim aur aaj kal kuch Ahl-e-Hadith aur Salafi bhai rakhte hain, lekin yeh raaye ahnaf, shawafe’, malaika aur hanabila ke nazdeek qabil-e-qabool nahi, aur na hi yeh khulafa-e-rashideen ke ‘amal se sabit hai.
Mufti sahib kehte hain: “Agar aap ghusse mein ya mazaaq mein bhi teen talaq bol dein, to shari’at mein woh teen hi ginni jayengi. Gunah alag baat hai, laakin talaq pad jati hai. Isi liye Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya: “Teen cheezain aisi hain ke mazaaq mein bhi ho jayein to haqeeqi hain – nikah, talaq aur taliq (ghulam azad karna).” (Sunan Abi Dawood 2194)
Ab masla halala ka: Jab teen talaq pad jaye to aurat sidha haram ho jati hai. Wapas nikah tab hi ho sakta hai jab woh kisi dusre mard se bilkul shar’ai nikah kare, woh nikah haqeeqi taur par qayam ho, phir agar woh dusra shauhar apni marzi se talaq de ya mar jaye, to iddat guzarne ke baad pehle shauhar se dobara nikah ja’iz ho jata hai. Yeh “halala” kaha jata hai, lekin jaan boojh kar kisi ko mut’ah ki tarah halala karwana sab se bada gunah hai. Nabi ﷺ ne aise karne walon par laanot farmayi hai (Sunan Ibn Majah 1936).
Mufti Tariq Masood sahib hamesha yeh nasihat karte hain: “Talaq khel nahi hai. Ghar basane mein 10 saal lag jate hain, barbaad karne mein 10 second. Ghusse mein teen talaq na bolo, balke ek ya do talaq do aur sochne ka waqt rakho. Agar galti se bol gaye to foran bade ulama se rabta karo, lekin aksar haalat mein wapas lane ka koi raasta nahi hota.”
Yeh fiqh ka masla itna ahem hai ke aaj bhi bohot se ghar is wajah se ujad jaate hain. Is liye hamesha sunnat tareeqa apnao: har talaq alag alag tuhr mein do, taake wapas lane ki gunjaish rahe.
Jahan ek taraf log ghalat talaq de kar apne ghar barbaad kar lete hain, wahan dusri taraf bohot se naujawan aur un ke waledain halal aur paakiza rishton ki talash mein pareshan rehte hain. Isi liye Mufti Tariq Masood sahib ne MTM Marriage Bureau qayam kiya hai jo poore Pakistan (Karachi, Lahore, Islamabad, Faisalabad, Peshawar, Quetta aur chhote shehron tak) aur overseas Pakistanis ke liye bilkul free Islamic matchmaking service faraham karta hai.
Yeh bureau sirf deen-dar, namazi, parda karne wali aur achhi tarbiyat yafta families ko jodta hai. Registration bohot asaan hai – sirf 2 minute mein askmuftitariqmasood.com par form bhar den ya WhatsApp number 0323-6928431 par message kar den.
Agar aap ya aap ke kisi jaan pehchaan walon ko achha rishta chahiye, to abhi MTM Marriage Bureau se rabta karen. Yeh woh jagah hai jahan se hazaron logon ne halal aur barkat wala rishta paaya aur apni zindagi duaon mein guzar rahi hai.
Allah Ta’ala hum sab ko ghar basane aur nibhane ki taufeeq ata farmaye aur talaq jaise na-pasandida amal se hifazat farmaye. Ameen.
