kya kisi dusre ky liye apny Rishtedaron Se Qata Talluq karna gunnah hai? | Ask Mufti Tariq Masood 🕌
Yeh sawal bohat aam hai ke kya kisi doosre ki wajah se apne rishtedaron se talluq tor dena gunnah hai? Aaj kal kai log dost, life partner ya in-laws ki wajah se apni hi family se doori ikhtiyar kar lete hain. Islam is maslay par bohat saaf, seedha aur sakht hukm deta hai.
Islam mein silah rehmi yani rishtedaron se jorna, unka khayal rakhna aur unse achay talluqat rakhna farz ke martabe ke qareeb ka amal hai. Aur iske bar’aks qata rehmi, yani rishta torna, Allah aur Rasool ﷺ ki na-pasandi ka kaam hai.
Aaye Quran o Sunnat se isko detail mein samajhte hain.
Allah Ta’ala ne Surah Muhammad (47:22–23) mein farmaya:
“Agar tum hukmaran bano ge to zameen mein fasad machaoge aur apne rishtedaron se talluqaat tor doge? Yeh log hain jin par Allah ne la’nat ki.”
Yani qata rehmi Allah ki la’nat ka sabab banti hai.
Yahan clear warning hai ke koi bhi wajah ho — gussa, naraazgi, ya dosron ka pressure — rishta torna kabhi justified nahi hota.
Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Qata rehmi karne wala Jannat mein nahi jayega.”
(Bukhari & Muslim)
Yeh hadees rishtedaron ke haqq ko kitni ahmiyat deti hai, iska andaza isi se lag jata hai.
Agar banda apne dosti ya shadi ki wajah se rishta tod de, to yeh gunnah aur bhi shadeed ho jata hai, kyun ke:
Do guna zulm hota hai — rishtedaron par bhi aur apne upar bhi.
Ajnabi ka kehna maana ja raha hota hai aur Allah ke hukm ko chhoda ja raha hota hai.
Aisi soorat mein banda apni zaati zindagi ko fitno ka nishana bana leta hai.
Islam humein yeh nahi sikhata ke kisi rishtay ke liye doosra rishta tor diya jaye. Balke Islam kehta hai:
👉 Jorno wala bano, todne wala nahi.
Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Jo silah rehmi karta hai, Allah uske rizq mein barkat deta hai aur umar lambi karta hai.”
(Bukhari)
Yani rishtedaron se achay talluqaat ka faida duniya aur aakhirat dono mein milta hai.
Ye bhi samajhna zaroori hai ke qata rehmi ka matlab “har waqt milna ya har baat par agree hona” nahi.
Balancer approach yeh hai:
Salam dua band na karna
Ghair zaroori jang na banana
Harkaton ki wajah se doori zaroori ho to bhi talluq na torna
Agar rishtedaron mein se koi zulm ya badtameezi kare, tab bhi complete breakup jaiz nahi, balke u’tna rista rakhna zaroori hai jitna shariat ne rokha nahi.
Agar koi saathi, dost, life partner ya in-laws ye kahe:
“Un se mat milna,”
“Unse rishta khatam karo,”
“Mere liye unko chhor do,”
To aisa kehna bhi gunnah aur aisa karna double gunnah.
Kyun ke koi bhi insaan Allah ke hukm ko override nahi kar sakta.
Islamik logic yeh kehti hai:
👉 Agar koi aap se rishta todne ko kahe, usi waqt samajh jao ke wo Shariat ka khilaf mashwara de raha hai.
Aur momin ka talab yeh hota hai ke har mashwara Quran o Sunnat ke mutabiq ho.
Kabhi kabhi kisi rishtedar ki bad-adabiyan, zulm ya nuqsan se bachne ke liye temporary distance jaiz hota hai. Lekin:
Talluq pura torna nahi
Na salam band karna
Na “main tumhara kuch nahi lagta” jaisi batein karna
Islam moderate approach deta hai:
Doori ho sakti hai, lekin rishta torna nahi.
Ab aate hain blog ke doosray hissa ki taraf — jahan hum baat karenge Mufti Tariq Masood Sahib ke Islamic Marriage Bureau ke bare mein, jo Pakistan ka ek mashhoor aur bharosemand halal rishta service platform ban chuka hai.
Aaj kal rishto ke mamlaat bohat complex ho chuke hain. Log ya to online fraud ka shikar hote hain, ya families ko suitable matches nahi milte. Isi liye Mufti Tariq Masood Sahib ki team ne ek safe, shar’i aur Islamic environment create kiya hai jahan har rishta izzat aur haya ke saath introduce hota hai.
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Yaha Karachi se le kar Gilgit tak har shehar ke halal rishtay mojood hain.
✔ Privacy Ka Sakht Khayal
Personal information ya pictures kisi ko randomly nahi di jati.
✔ Islamic Approach
Har step Shariah ke mutabiq hota hai—yeh dating apps wala system bilkul nahi.
✔ Family Compatibility Check
Families ko ek dusre ka background samajhne ka mauqa diya jata hai taake rishta poore sukoon se tay ho.
Aisi families jo saaf-suthra, shar’i rishta chahti hain
Divorcees
Widows / widowers
Overseas Pakistanis
Log jin ka rishta age ki wajah se delay ho raha ho
Deeni soch rakhnewale log
Is bureau ne hazaron logon ki zindagi mein sukoon, izzat aur halal ghar basane ka sabab bana hai.
Process simple hota hai:
Apni details submit karna,
Apni preferences batana,
Team suitable rishtay share karti hai,
Dono families razamand hon to aage communication hota hai.
Pure setup ka focus yeh hota hai ke rishta shar’i hudood, privacy aur izzat ke sath tay ho.
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