Biwi Ko Behen Kehna Jaiz Hai? – Mufti Tariq Masood Ki Fiqhi Taqreer Aur Ghar Ki Baatein

Ghar mein chhoti-moti baatein kabhi kabhi badi uljhan ban jati hain. Ek aisa hi sawal hai: “Agar main apni biwi ko behen keh doon, to kya nikah khatam ho jayega?” Yeh baat gusse mein, mazaaq mein ya pyar se ho sakti hai, lekin iska fiqhi hukum kya hai? Mufti Tariq Masood ne apne ek tazah bayan mein is masle ko itni aasani se samjhaya ke logon ne ghar laut kar apni zuban sambhal li. Unki 40 minute ki taqreer ab 32 lakh views tak pohunch chuki hai. Aaiye is biwi behen kehna ke masle ko Quran, Hadith aur rozana zindagi ke nazariye se dekhte hain.

والدین اور بیوی میں زیادہ حق کس کا ہے؟ |

Fiqhi Asal – Yeh Zihar Hai Ya Sirf Lafz?

Mufti Sahab ne pehle yeh saaf kiya:

“Biwi ko ‘behen’ kehna sirf lafz nahi, agar niyyat ho ke ‘ab tu mere liye haram hai jaise behen’, to yeh zihar hai.”

Zihar Kya Hai?

• Surah Al-Mujadila (58:2-4): Allah ne farmaya ke jo aurat ko apni maa ya behen ki peeth se tashbeeh de, woh zihar karta hai.
• Hadith (Bukhari): Ek sahaba ne biwi ko “Tu meri maa jaisi hai” kaha, Nabi (SAW) ne hukum diya ke kaffara ada kare.

Hanafi Fiqh:

• Agar niyyat zihar ki ho → zihar ho jata hai, nikah suspend, kaffara wajib.
• Agar mazaaq ya pyar mein kaha → zihar nahi, sirf gunah-e-sagheera.

Natija: Niyyat dekhi jayegi – sirf lafz se nikah nahi tootta.

Niyyat Kaise Pata Chalegi? – 4 Qisam Ke Alfaaz

Mufti Sahab ne 4 qisam batayi:

Practical Rule: Agar baad mein biwi poochhe aur shak ho, to kaffara ada kar lo – behtar hai.

غسل فرض ہونے کی حالت میں سحری کرنا

Zihar Ka Kaffara – Kya Karna Hai?

Agar zihar ho gaya, to nikah wapas ke liye kaffara zaroori:

1. 60 miskeen ko khana (ya 60 din roza agar khana na de sako)
2. Kaffara ke baad rujoo – biwi ke saath wapas rehna jaiz
3. Tauba – Allah se maafi maango

Misal: Ek shakhs ne gusse mein kaha, phir afsos hua – Mufti Sahab ne farmaya: “60 logon ko biryani khilao, phir ghar wapas aao.”

Pakistani Gharanon Mein Aam Scene

Pakistan mein yeh lafz aksar sunne ko milta hai:

• Sasural mein: “Yeh meri behen jaisi hai”
• Doston ke saamne: “Meri biwi behen samajh lo”
• Gusse mein: “Tu meri behen hai, ab door reh!”

Mufti Sahab ne farmaya:

“Yeh lafz ghar ki mohabbat barbaad karte hain. Biwi ka darja maa se kam nahi – usay ‘behen’ keh kar chhota mat karo.”

Bachon Par Asar – Zaban Ka Sabak

Bachay sunte hain, seekhte hain. Agar baap biwi ko behen kahe, to:

• Ladke biwi ko izzat nahi denge
• Ladkiyan shauhar se dar jayengi

Tip: Ghar mein “jaan”, “hum-safar”, “pyari” jaise lafz istemal karein.

5 Ghaltiyan Jin Se Bachen

1. Gusse mein bolna – pehle wudu, phir baat
2. Mazaaq mein kehna – biwi ko bura lagta hai
3. Doston ke saamne – biwi ki izzat ka khayal rakhein
4. SMS/WhatsApp par – likha hua bhi zihar ban sakta hai
5. Kaffara bhool jana – agar zihar hua to ada karna zaroori

رات میں جھاڑو لگانا اور ناخن کاٹنا: مفتی طارق مسعود کی شرعی رہنمائی

Challenge – Ghar Ko Jannah Banayein

Mufti Sahab ne challenge diya:

“Ek mahine tak biwi ko sirf mohabbat ke naam se pukaro – ‘meri jaan’, ‘meri duniya’. Phir dekho ghar mein sukoon kaise barhta hai.”

Yeh biwi behen kehna ka masla sirf fiqh nahi – ghar ki khushi aur nikah ki hifazat ka hai. Ek lafz se Jannah ka darwaza khulta hai, ya dozakh ki aag lagti hai. Zaban sambhalo, dil jod lo.

ناخن کاٹ کر کہاں پھینکیں

Part 2: MTM Marriage Bureau – Nikah Ki Hifazat, Rishta Ki Amanat

MTM Marriage Bureau Pakistani Muslim khandaanon ke liye Quran-o-Sunnat ki roshni mein rishta jorta hai. Har shehar mein branch, verified biodata, waledain ki razamandi, nikkah qualified mufti se.

Islamic usool:

• Hayaa – Har meeting supervised
• Taqwa – Namaz, akhlaq pehla sawal
• Mawaddah – Surah Ar-Rum (30:21) ka paigham

88% success rate – 5,000+ khushgawar nikkah. Girls ke liye lifetime privacy, parents ke liye free mashwara.

Apna halal rishta shuru karein: 📞 0323-6928431 🌐 mtmmarriage.com

Allah farmata hai: “Main ne jore banaye taake tum sukoon pao.” MTM sirf zariya – asal nikkah Allah ki taraf se.